2014-08-01

Romance in Chinese Style - Qixi

As known by many, the Valentine’s Day (qínɡ rén jié on 14th February each year is a romantic day, but in China there is another day to show romance(浪漫 lànɡ màn). On the night of the seventh day of the seventh month in Chinese lunar calendar, in an environment of mild weather and fragrant trees and grass, the most romantic traditional Chinese festival begins. The Day is called Qixi festival.
                                                         Qixi - A Time To Show Love
Introduction to Chinese Valentine’s Day- Qixi
The Qixi(七夕 ) Festival originates from a legend love story between the celestial Weaving Maid in the heavens and the Cowherd down on earth. As a result of their mutual adoration and attraction for each other, they eventually get married. But then later they are forced to break up. The two became the Altair and the Vega separated on either side of the Milky Way, and can only meet each other once a year on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month on the Magpie Bridge. Men and women that have affectionate feelings for each other will for sure pray that night for a beautiful marriage. As this Qixi Festival is a traditional Chinese festival full of romance, it is also known as Chinese Valentine’s Day.

Customs on Qixi Festival
As in modern China today, the Qixi Festival is a day for the young. On this day, young people will stay with their loved ones to enjoy the romance. Young men will regard this day as the best time to propose to their Miss Right, usually by giving them roses or Chinese love tokens.

                                                     Sand Art Depicting the Qixi Story
The most popular custom during the Qixi Festival is the one when ladies take part in different activities to entreat Vega for skill on the seventh day of the seventh month on the Chinese lunar calendar. The activities include threading a needle to test skill, making some small appliances to compare it and placing some fruit to beg for it. The forms of begging for skill vary from place to place, and each has its own interesting characteristic.

In some parts of China, there is a custom of worshiping the Seven Sister Tanabata God. Young ladies put on their new clothes and get together and make alliances under the Moon and Threading Needles. In some other places they compete by threading needles for an honor of “a deft hand.”

The tradition of dyeing fingernails on the Qixi Festival is a popular custom in southwestern China. The young ladies there mix the sap of a tree with water, and use the mixture to wash their hair during the festival. It is said that washing it that way will not only keep ladies young and beautiful, but also help those unmarried ladies to find their Mr. Right as soon as possible. Most of the ladies and children like to use flowering straw to dye their fingernails during the festival as one of their favorite entertainments.

What did you do on the very romantic day of Qixi?

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